Jumping into Trust

Just jump – trust God and jump. He will take you where He needs you. Jump. Forget yourself, and remember Him. Just jump. Take that leap you’ve been hesitating to take. Stretch your limits of safety. Push beyond your comfortable boundaries. Shave aside the doubt and fear, the worry and anxiety.

Is it not YAHWEH that said, “Be careful (anxious) for nothing…Fret not thyself…Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not upon thine own understanding…” Isn’t He the one who told us a sparrow doesn’t fall without His knowledge? And, come on…the Creator of the universe, of atoms and galaxies, of ants and of mountains, of good and evil…that Creator pays attention to us, the one creation that screwed everything up? If that doesn’t humble us, I don’t know what will.

So don’t you think He might know what He’s doing? After all, He has been around for…ever. He probably knows what to do better than even us.

Stop questioning. Stop obsessing about what bad things might happen, what’s going to go wrong. Stop analyzing. Stop telling God He’d better step back and let you handle this one. Stop telling God you can’t trust Him. Take a running leap.

Of Singlehood and Solitude – II

So why not just “date around,” huh? Why not have some fun while I can? It’s not as if it’s going to hurt anything. Whoever I eventally marry will understand. They probably went out once or twice too. No biggie!

I’ll tell you why not.

1) because it’s a lie straight from Satan’s lips.

2) because the reasoning is sinful, as well as the fallacy of “Tu Quoque:”

  • ‘Tu Quoque’ is dismissing someone’s viewpoint on an issue because he himself is inconsistent in that very thing. — The Fallacy Detective by Nathaniel and Hans Bluedorn

3) because it’s doing an easy thing that will have hard consequences (for more on that, read chapter 9 in the book Do Hard Things by Alex and Brett Harris).

4) Because it means taking the focus off of Christ and thinking of your flesh.

ONE – “Dating around” is not harmless fun! Only from a woman’s point of view can I say this, knowing how easily our emotions become involved in a relationship of any kind. You will carry that memory with you forever. Not only that, but in more serious situations, people get physically harmed.

TWO – Playing the “Blame Game” is sin. Pointing at others to minimize your own shortcomings is pride, pure and simple. God calls pride (among other sins) an “abomination.” It’s in His list of The Top Seven Most Abominable in Proberbs 6:16-19. In fact, it’s at the very top. (This doesn’t just apply to romantic relationships. It counts for ALL areas of your life.)

Also, it is not “in lowliness of mind…esteem[ing] other[s] better than [your]selves” (Philippians 2:3). Nor is it portraying Christ or fulfilling His charge of us:

  • Matthew 5:13-16
    Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.
    Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
    Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
    Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
  • Matthew 7:3-5, 17-20
    And why beholdest thou the mote (speck) that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam (log) that is in thine own eye?
    Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
    Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.

THREE – To give into the flesh as a Christian is to forsake Christ. There’s no other way to spin it. Once we have repented, believed on, and accepted Christ as our One and only Savior and means to God (John 3:16, 14:6, 1 Timothy 2:5), we are “a new creature” (2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 5:16, 25). Our sins have been crucified on the cross with Him. We are now of Christ, and called to good works for His glory alone (Matthew 7:17-20, 12:35, Galatians 2:20, Colossians 2:6, 1 Peter 3:17, James 4:7).

Also, “…the right thing, though hard, really is the smartest – and in many ways the easier – thing.” Do Hard Things, Chapter 9 ‘Taking a Stand.’ In the end, a hardest decision will pay off in a more agreeable (good) consequence, than if you chose a more popular, easy decision and paid for it in the near or farther-off future with a more unpleasant (or potentially deadly) consequence.

FOUR – I think this one’s easy enough to see, but I’ll explain further in any case. If any thing that you are involved in or thinking or doing in any way is
not glorifying God to your utmost, and not denying your flesh, it is sin (Galatians 6:14, Ephesians 6:12, Philippians 4:8, 2:2-3, Colossians 3:23, 2 Timothy 2:22).

The bottom line is, God has called us unto Him – not unto ourselves, and not unto a casual date. Until we are married…

…He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. (1 Corinthians 7:32-35)

(All Biblical references are from the King James Version)

Of Singlehood and Solitude – I

I’m going to write about a topic that is, for one, controversial, and two, is an issue quite close to my heart. It’s going to be a series, so the more controversial parts begin in the next installment.

Waiting. Not waiting for just any ol’ thing. Waiting for him (or her as is the case for men).

You know what I’m talking about: the (seemingly) long and lonely wait for the man (or woman) whom God (eventually) will bring into your life.

Personally, as a young girl, I dreamed of meeting and marrying that man at eighteen so we could have a big family right off. I’m now five months from my twentieth birthday, and have no such prospect. And guess what? I’m extremely grateful to God that “dream” didn’t come true. There were (and are yet) so many lessons I needed to learn. I haven’t gotten the full grasp of most, if not all, of them.

I do miss him, however. At one point or another in the course of the day, I will think about him. I keep a journal of letters to my future husband (whom my friends and I have acronymized “FDH” – Future Dear Husband). I don’t know if he’s the type to read sappy love letters or even write them himself, but it makes no difference to me. I’d rather write them and give them to him and let him decide than not write them and regret that I didn’t have the opportunity to give him that choice.

But that’s beside the point. God didn’t mean for us to continually pine for our future spouse. Our single years are meant for huge things. Or in the words of Alex and Brett Harris, “hard things.” Things for the glory of God and His kingdom. There are billions of people needing to be reached – and we can do it while we wait! Why not make the most of the years normally spent doing…well, not much.

I have resolved to learn and do and absorb and experience throughout these years. I want to do something. Why not do it when I have nothing better to do with my time besides watch TV or kill time with some other useless, unintelligent, nonactivity? If I am capable, I’m going to do it. If I’m not capable…well, I’m going to try! I’m going to learn things I can use in everyday life as well as things for my future. With God’s direction I will do hard things big and small and in between; spiritual, physical, mental, and otherwise.

So wait on the Lord…but not as if you’re waiting for your life to begin. Wait as though your life hangs in the balance. Take advantage of your years of singlehood and make the most of the incredible storehouse of knowledge God has provided for you. Don’t waste your life. Do hard things. Hunger for God. Fight the enemy within, and you’ll find no greater joy than in cultivating humility and walking in God’s way.

And yes, I just named five of the best books I’ve ever read, plus my number-one favorite newsletter publication since childhood. I recommend them all with the highest regard. :D

Out of Control

I was just watching a piece on Good Morning America about teenage pregnancy. It made me sick to my stomach.

The questions asked of ten fourteen to seventeen year old boys and girls were, at best, disgusting. Ranging from “Is it surprising to you that Governor Sarah Palin’s seventeen-year-old daughter Bristol is pregnant?” to “Whose responsibility is it to remember to have safe sex?”

I had almost finished my breakfast, and suddenly I didn’t feel like eating anymore. It wasn’t that I was full, to be sure. A small corner piece of blueberry boy bait (kind of like coffeecake with blueberries) doesn’t cut it for a meal. I couldn’t even bear the thought of eating seconds, let alone finishing the couple of bites left on my plate.

The answers that these teenagers gave were rote, practiced, rehearsed. To be expected. A pack of lies fed to them by parents, teachers, authorities, and peers as they grew up in a public school, in a public world.

One seventeen-year-old girl said that “It’s something that I think teenagers are too young to know how to control.”

A fourteen-year old said “It seems like our generation has matured more sexually faster than generations previous to us.”

When asked if there were any questions that the girls wanted to ask of the boys, one spoke up right away. “Why do guys think it’s so cool to have sex with so many girls?”

And one boy replied immediately, “I think it’s part of the male dominance mindset. It’s just been that way forever.”

That’s when I left, discarding of the last of my breakfast on my plate as I walked through the kitchen. Ironically, I had just been listening to “A Few Good Men” on my iPod. You know how it goes?

What this dying world could use is a willing man of God,

Who dares to go against the grain and works without applause,

A man who’ll raise that shield of faith, protecting what is pure,

Whose love it tough and gentle, a man whose word is sure.

God doesn’t need an orator who knows just what to say.

He doesn’t need authorities to reason him away.

He doesn’t need an army to guarantee a win.

He just needs a few good men.

Men full of compassion, who laugh and love and cry.

Men who’ll face eternity and aren’t afraid to die.

Men who’ll fight for freedom and honor once again.

He just needs a few good men.

He calls the broken derelict whose life has been renewed,

He calls the one who has the strength to stand up for the truth,

Enlistment lines are open, and He wants you to come in,

He just needs a few good men.

Men full of compassion, who laugh and love and cry.

Men who’ll face eternity and aren’t afraid to die.

Men who’ll fight for freedom and honor once again.

He just needs a few good men.

I wish I knew a horde of good men. I only know a few, and know of a very few more.

Something else that absolutely infuriates me is the extreme leftist tilt of the public media’s teeter-totter of “equality.” Every one of those kids who spoke on the segment didn’t speak up for standards of abstinence, or the subject of (God forbid!) waiting for sex until marriage. A few of the teenagers weren’t shown to have spoken in the piece, but I doubt that their views were any different. I was vainly hoping for one, just one of them to speak up and echo what is in my heart and in so many others’. But even as I hoped, I knew it wouldn’t happen, because those children were handpicked from a public school that had instilled them with such untruths as to benefit ABC’s “Teenage Pregnancy” story. Ones who wouldn’t be able to plant a seed of doubt in viewers’ minds as to whether there really is a better way, a more godly way to do things, to give hope to we few who do wait.

What else is sad is that these news networks don’t even think outside the box for themselves. Every once in a great while, they’ll have something to say about abstinence or purity, Christianity or conservatism, something of the sort. I’ve never heard anything in favor of it, just the callous, offhanded remarks that safe sex is enough, abstinence is asking too much, not to mention that teaching abstinence in public schools is (GASP) almost as bad as teaching creationism! The nerve!

Maybe with Sarah Palin on the Republican’s ticket for VP…just maybe, there’ll be some change. We can only pray. God help us, we’ll just have to wait and pray – and vote.

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